2023 Blue Devils Girls Soccer

After a summer of travel and fun, it was time for Callie to buckle down for her sophomore year of soccer at Henry Clay. After a great freshman campaign she wanted to make sure she didn't rest on her laurels and take anything for granted.

We were all very proud and happy that she made the varsity squad again and she loved participating from the other side on the grand tradition of toilet-papering the homes of the new varsity team members. It is a great group of girls and Callie enjoys the time she gets with them on and off the field. The team lost some strong players from the year before but they were ready for the challenge ahead.

After playing much of her freshman year at the forward position, Callie adjusted to being one of the outside wings/midfielders. It required a lot more running in the transitions from offense to defense and back. Her time in club playing defense certainly helped her be effective on both sides of the ball. 

One of the big adjustments for Callie in the new role on the wing was also mental because she was not the point person for the offense as much. In her first year on varsity she led the team in scoring, but now she was supposed to create opportunities for others more than focus on scoring. And in the first month of the season as the team worked to get into a rhythm Callie played well with two goals and five assists. She was also proving to have very reliable corner kicks, with two of her assists coming off her deliveries.

It was an up and down season for the team and for Callie as well. Henry Clay had a nine-year streak of winning their district heading into this season and to keep that streak alive they would have to come together as a squad. At times they looked unbeatable and at other times they struggled. 

Regardless of how the team was doing, however, the team dinners, morning bagels in the parking lot, and just the overall camaraderie continued to feed Callie's soul. Through the ups and downs, and there were plenty of both, Callie never stopped loving her teammates and being part of the team.

And as happens with every mad rush through the season, districts were upon us before we knew it. Our first game was against Scott County, a rematch of a thrilling 3-2 Henry Clay win from earlier in the season. This game proved to be even more exciting as Scott County took an early 2-0 lead and had the Blue Devils on their heels. But Callie and crew dug deep and tied it up by halftime. Less than a minute into the second half Callie scored a go ahead goal and the show of offense truly commenced. At the final whistle the scoreboard registered a 6-4 victory for Henry Clay. 

On to the championship game we went. It was a rematch of the previous year's district championship against Frederick Douglass. Henry Clay won that game 2-1, but in this regular season Douglass had beaten the Blue Devils pretty handily 4-0. Fortunately this game was a much better contest. Unfortunately it ended with a 2-1 defeat. 

The good news is that the runner-up still moves on to the regional tournament. This meant the girls had at least one more game to play. And the Blue Devils received their 2nd place district trophy eager to move on and show what they were made of. When the schedule came out they were headed up the road to Georgetown to play Great Crossing High School.

The Great Crossing field is where Henry Clay had won districts the previous year so they felt confident going into the match. To say this was an exciting game is an understatement. As was the case at points during the season, the girls fell behind early and clawed back. The game went back and forth heading into the final minutes. A free kick goal put the Warhawks up 4-3 with only 4-5 minutes left. The Blue Devils refused to give up and literally fought to the very last second. There was one second left on the clock and the referee had the clock stopped to allow Henry Clay to take a corner kick. Callie delivered a beautiful ball and Grace Plummer headed it into the back of the net. As Blue Devil fans went bananas the referee signaled that the goal did not count because time had run out. Safe to say there was a flurry of emotions and one of the Blue Devil assistant coaches got a red card in the process. Such a difficult end to the season.

And just like that, Callie's second year of varsity soccer at Henry Clay came to an end. It was a tougher year than the first one, but no less rewarding in the end because of the bonds she continued to build and the joy she continued to have playing with her teammates. 

Hitting the Books Again

And just like that, even though meteorological summer wasn't over until September 21, the Bowes summer was over and a new school year had begun.

Both Callie and Reese were starting their second years in their respective schools, so we didn't have any nervous jitters around what to expect or how to get around the building. They were calm, cool, collected, and ready for the year ahead. We were excited to see what the new year would bring.

For Reese, the new year brought a new sport. After her successful 6th grade track season the Morton cross-country coach came calling and recruited her for the team. Reese was a bit wary but likes Coach Travis so was willing to give it a try. It was an impressive feat because much of the fall required her to juggle cross country practices and a soccer practices. She did great in the meets she was able to attend and finished off that season with a third-place finish in the Fayette County championships. If you asked her, though, she would say that the anxiety around the races were too much for her to take. We'll see if she continues this sport but we are proud of her for trying it.

Of course the girls aren't the only ones with school affiliations in this household and it turned out that one of UK's first home football games featured the Colonels of Eastern Kentucky University. Sharon and Chris generously offered to bring us to the game and even allowed John to wear his EKU gear in their seats. It was a little tense early on when EKU actually had the lead and the Cats were not looking good. The tide soon shifted, but it was a little dicey at the beginning.

We feel so fortunate to have not just good neighbors but good friends in the Chrismans. Whenever we get together it is always a good time and we are able to talk anything and everything. Sharon even told Sarah how to pose for this picture to get the most flattering profile. Sarah always appreciates any opportunity to learn from the wisdom that Sharon provides.

Nana Banana and Sport came out for their fall trip to visit and catch some soccer games. We decided to give them the full experience which meant they got to drive up to Indiana to see Reese's club team play. Nothing beats six hours in a car just to see a 90-minute game. Even better, the timing of the game meant we drove up the night before and added a hotel stay to the mix. If you asked them they would say they would have driven twice as long if it meant they got to see their granddaughter play. 

Here is a picture of Reese's squad for the fall season. They ended up having their fair share of wins in various states, all while getting to know a new coach. Reese loved Coach Kurt and ended up starting at left back for the season. She continues to show tremendous grit and skill as she holds her own against girls half a foot taller and who, it is safe to say, have a few pounds on her. Reese is deceptively tough and fun to watch.

Ending Another Summer of Fun

Out two weeks in the Southwest made the summer magical, but it did not mean that summer was completely over just yet. We still had a few trips up our sleeve.

Before Ella and Claire went off to college we fit in some family fun by going with the Abrahams to see The Chicks play in Louisville. It was Callie's third concert of the year but this marked Reese's debut on the concert scene. The four adults sat in one section and the four kids sat together several rows away in seats with a better view. It was a great show and the girls enjoyed watching Reese react to concert shenanigans going on around them. Education doesn't just take place in the classroom.

Meanwhile, the year of celebrating the half-century mark continued. This time Sarah flew to Jackson Hole to join her crew in marking Lauren's birthday. Following our experience in Zion, Sarah had recommended e-bikes for excursions into Grand Teton National Park. And yet again, they were a huge hit as each individual could rely on the alternative power as much as they wanted. The bikes were deemed the Great Activity Equalizer. We all need a way to keep up with Lauren, who appeared to return her bike with almost a full charge remaining.

It was absolutely a wonderful weekend filled with biking, hiking, eating, and drinking. In short, a perfect way to celebrate both a birthday and over thirty years of friendship. Sarah loves the Grand Tetons and can't wait to find another reason to return and spend more time in the area. 

While Sarah was high in the mountains, John was on the eastern edge of Long Island having his own birthday celebration. For the first time in four years the whole crew was able to gather in one place, thanks to the fact that we could all crash at Bill's house. For a couple of days we were able to reconnect, tell stories, eat, and drink. There was far less hiking involved on the Atlantic Coast, that's for sure. But for a crew that has known each other for more than four decades, the bonds remain strong and it is so easy to be together.

We did venture on a very short hike on the beach one evening and this is proof. Perhaps we were all tired because of the distance traveled to get here. Bill now lives in Madrid, Spain, Tyler in Long Beach, California, and Ted in Seattle. It makes the journey from Kentucky seem like a walk in the park. Regardless, getting together is so important. We even manage to take some time away from talking about the past to work through the trials and tribulations of the present. There is nothing quite so valuable as true friendships.

We must also note that the trips with friends were made possible through the love and generosity of Aunt Katie, who flew down to Lexington to spend time with Callie and Reese while their parents were gallivanting around the country. Katie didn't have an easy assignment either, as she had to get the girls to their soccer obligations, which for Callie included toilet-papering houses to welcome new varsity players to the high school team. Thank you, Aunt Katie!

Speaking of soccer, Callie took all the courses required to become an official referee and thus entered her first paying job. She wasn't quite ready to tackle the responsibilities of being a center ref but was happy to run the lines and take care of things that way. It's a big step and a fun one to see.

4 Bowes and 4 Corners

Following a great week with family in Santa Fe we hopped in our car and began the next phase of our vacation. It was going to be a tour de force with a lot of driving, hiking, and adventuring. We couldn't wait.

Our first stop was Mesa Verde National Park, about a five hour drive from Santa Fe. We already had reserved a tour of Balcony House for that afternoon so we had to keep to a schedule. This is definitely an example of you have to see it to believe it or at least appreciate it. You hear about these structures and see pictures, but to be inside of them within that environment is incredible.

They warn you that there will be some climbing involved and they aren't lying. We went up ladders, went through tunnels, and learned a lot from our ranger throughout the tour. It's hard to believe how old these dwellings are and impressive to see they are still in good shape after hundreds of years. It is awe-inspiring to even contemplate how they were built.

We spent the night in the lodge at the park. The room was small but had an amazing view, and the restaurant served a delicious and pricey meal. The next day we hoped to have another tour but they were already booked so we had to settle for seeing things like Cliff Palace from more of a distance. This was certainly a perspective that helped us to see the overall beauty of the dwellings. Mesa Verde deserved more of our time but we had to hit the road.

We had a quick stop during our next phase of travel to get the iconic photo at the Four Corners destination located on the Navajo reservation. Not seen here are the dozens of people waiting in line in the 90 degree heat to take the same type of picture. There is a little bit of pressure since everyone is really there to capture this one moment to say they did it. No dawdling allowed, and certainly no time to try ten different variations of the shot.

Later that day we made it to Zion Ponderosa Ranch in southern Utah which would be home for the next four nights. We were glamping, which meant we had beds in a canvas tent that was on a wooden platform. This was a compromise since Sarah wanted to stay in one of the Conestoga Wagon rooms the ranch also provides. That was a hard pass for the rest of the family. Our first adventure here was a jeep tour out to Jolly Gulch. The ranch shares a border with Zion National Park so we got to see some of the park before we even officially went in.

One of the many highlights of the Ranch was the fact it had not one but two pools. We also went all in for the all you can play mini-golf pass. Reese and Callie made sure we took advantage of the pool as much as we could. As you see here, John did not need any more sun while the girls couldn't get enough. 

On our second day we arranged for a canyoneering trip that took us to one of the nearby slot canyons. As we may say a lot in this post, pictures won't do it justice. We first had a 20-30 ride in a four-wheeler through the back country to get to the canyon. Our two guides, Riley and Ella, were young college-aged women who had our lives in their hands. They were wonderful and we felt very safe, which is good since they were literally holding the ropes as we rappelled. But first we had to hike to the first slot canyon.

The first rappel was about 60 feet and Callie volunteered to be the first one down. She had a great balance of risk and caution, and set the tone for our group. It was quite impressive to see how she tackled the whole thing without blinking an eye. The first rappel was fun and got us excited for what we would get to do next.

As if the rappelling wasn't enough, hiking through the slot canyon was beyond cool. You had to stop and soak it all in so that you didn't take for granted the way the sunlight brought the rocks around you to life in such cool ways. And one of the best aspects of this adventure as well is that outside of Riley and Ella there was only one other person on the tour. So walking through the canyons was serene and we didn't feel like we were rushed or packed in like sardines.

The morning of the tour John got a call saying that there was water at the bottom of the last rappel and wondering if we would still want to go. Of course we still wanted to go even if we didn't really know what that meant. Well here is a picture that kind of captures what it meant. John is standing in cold, muddy water up to his chest waiting to help Reese when she gets to the bottom of the rappel. Without him there Reese would have had to deal with water up to her chin and probably would have had to swim out. It was awesome! After that last rappel we hiked out of the canyon and got to enjoy the ride back to the car. We would do this again in a hearbeat.

What better way to celebrate the Fourth of July then to spend it in a national park? We had the whole day set aside to explore Zion and it turned out to be a perfect plan. One of the best decisions we made was to rent e-bikes so that we could move around the park without waiting on shuttles. And since no cars were allowed in most of the park we ended up having the roads to ourselves for almost the entire time. It was such a beautiful way to see a lot of the terrain and Reese loved going fast and cruising through the main valley.

There is so much to do in Zion, but a top priority was exploring the Narrows. Since we went in July and there hadn't been much rain the Narrows were open to hikers and we made the most of it. For those who haven't been there, this is an entire hiking route that is in a river that travels through a canyon that has walls at least a hundred feet high. The further you go the more narrow the canyon gets. It is awe-inspiring.

The Narrows is also a perfect hike when it is July in Utah and the temperatures are in the high 90s. However, the water really is cold and at a few points it is deep enough where you have to brace yourself to keep going, even when you are over six feet tall. This is the portion of the hike where Reese had to swim a little bit and it is also one of the reasons why Reese was shivering for a portion of the hike. The Narrows is not kind to those with little body fat.

Because of our e-bikes we hiked the Narrows in the morning, biked to the lodge to eat our picnic lunch, continued to bike out of the park and into town for ice cream, and then biked back up to the Narrows to venture back into the canyon again. From the park entrance to the path to the Narrows is about 7 miles, so needless to say we hiked and biked a lot. But it would not have been as easy without those e-bikes. And at numerous times during the day we stopped, looked around, and soaked in the incredible experience. These trips as a family mean the world to us.

Next on the agenda was hitting Bryce Canyon National Park which was only about an hour and a half drive from the Ranch. It was another hot day and we certainly felt it a bit more since we weren't able to spend the day walking in a river. Every national park is different and this one kind of looks like what we would expect to see on Mars. It is incredibly unique and beautiful, just the way we like our national parks.

We hiked along the rim of the canyon for a couple of miles and then ventured down into the valley for one of the many hiking loops to check out the hoodoos. As with every portion of this journey we have countless pictures to share but figured we would include one with Reese smiling because she did not start out the journey in such high spirits. In fact, as we were beginning our hike along the rim the girls were walking ahead of us but still overheard Sarah's comment that Reese appeared to be in her "I hate life phase." Thankfully, we were able to joke about this and it didn't dampen the mood for the rest of the day.

The final destination of our barnstorming adventure through the Southwest was Page, Arizona, where we had several excursions planned. On the drive from Utah we had to stop at Horseshoe Bend for the well known scenic view. Not pictured are the hundreds of other people jostling to get a similar picture. 

That very afternoon we also had a reservation to tour the lower Antelope Valley Canyon on the Navajo Reservation. We had seen numerous pictures and knew this was something we wanted to do, however we were overwhelmed with the beauty of the experience. We couldn't stop taking pictures in the hope that at least one would be able to capture what we were seeing in person. 

One of the incredible parts of it all is the hidden aspect of it all. To get in and out of the canyon you have to climb a series of stairs and when you finally get out and turn around the canyon just appears to be a narrow crack in the earth and gives no hint of the grandeur that lies below. We would highly recommend making sure you take this excursion if you are in the area.

Having done so many hikes the girls were definitely ready for a different kind of activity that involved water. Lake Powell is right outside of Page and we rented kayaks to spend the day venturing around the lake. The folks we rented from gave us good pointers on where to find coves off the main lake that would be secluded and provide opportunities to get out of the boats. It was just what the doctor ordered.

This was definitely one of Reese's favorite parts of the trip. We found one particular spot where we would test our cliff jumping abilities and overall bravado. This was the small jump. Callie, Reese, and Sarah all did an even bigger jump off a higher cliff across the cove after this one. We had packed lunches and were able to spend the day floating, swimming, and just enjoying being together in nature. We couldn't ask for more. To remember the day a couple of us purchased sweatshirts with a slogan that still makes us smile. Lake Powell. Fresh Water. No Sharks.

And because no day, even a long travel day, should be wasted, we had one final stop. It was going to be a long drive from Page back to Albuquerque where we were catching our plane the next day, but along the way we had to make a mini-detour to see Monument Valley. We did not have time to do the complete driving tour but ventured far enough to see a few of the iconic rock formations. We have been so fortunate to have such great adventures and see so much of the beauty this country has to offer. As we have said before, we made a decision long ago to emphasize experiences over things and from being to end we think this trip showcased why this has been such a priority for us.

Do You Know the Way to Santa Fe?

Back in 2016 to celebrate the 50th wedding anniversary of Nana Banana and Sport we all went to the Grand Tetons and Yellowstone. It took us seven years to get the whole gang to do another big family trip, but we managed to all gather again in 2023.

This time around the destination was Santa Fe. Nana Banana and Sport generously rented a house that fit all the Bowes, Balestraccis, and Hannens. We just had to get ourselves there for a week of fun in the New Mexican sun. On day one we visited the downtown plaza in Santa Fe to check out the Indian market and explore the area. All the grandkids were present and accounted for, as this picture can attest.

As the group started dividing up, Sarah suggested that the older crew hit up one of the spots on the Margarita Trail. It's not that often that this group participates in day drinking, but it was the beginning of a great vacation and everyone was up for the fun.

We had a lot of great things planned for our trip, and one of the first adventures took us to Albuquerque at dawn for a hot air balloon ride. Amazingly enough we got a balloon that fit all eleven of the folks who wanted to see the sights from up high. You can see us all smiling in the basket here. However, it must be noted that there was no door to get into the basket - you had to go up and over. It was an impressive feat for the older members of our group. 

The ride lasted for about an hour and was incredibly peaceful and uneventful. We were one of 8-9 balloons that went up that morning which made the experience interesting as the balloons jockeyed for position and relayed information about the prevailing winds and possible landing spots. One of the coolest parts was watching all that went into preparing the balloons and then the actual landing and packing up of the balloons. It was a very neat experience.

The house we rented was a very cool adobe style house and had everything we needed, including a dinner table that fit all of us at once. In addition it had a great patio/covered porch. One night it served as a perfect spot to watch an incredible lightning storm in the distance over the hills. It would have been tough to find a better place for the week, especially since it was only minutes away from downtown.

Another adventure we ended up taking was Bandolier National Monument, which was a relatively short drive away. We hiked up to the cliff dwellings and even got to climb inside of them. A few hardy souls went to the end of the trail to climb the ladders into the Alcove House. Those who turned back to head to the visitor center got caught in a massive rainstorm while the folks in Alcove House got stuck in the cliff dwelling for a period of time. Needless to say only a couple of people stayed dry.

The most unique experience of the trip, however, was a visit to the Meow Wolf Immersive Art Experience and Interactive Exhibit in Santa Fe. This is truly something that you have to see to believe because it defies explanations. For example, this picture shows John as he heads into the dryer of a house in order to go down a short slide that goes into another room. We also have a video of Nana Banana emerging from a refrigerator. 

The girls did end up having a fun time running from one area to another and seeing what strange or intriguing thing was around the next turn. We stayed there for a couple of hours but if we really got into the interactive part could have been there for much longer. We saw that they also have adult only hours in the evening with drink service that might take the experience to a whole new level.

Throughout the week few had days where some folks went in one direction and others took a different path. On this particular day Uncle Brian took the girls climbing at a local spot and paddle boarding at a nearby lake. Callie in particular loved the opportunity to flex her climbing skills and both she and Reese were impressed with Zoey and Uncle Brian. 

While the girls went climbing, John, Sarah, Katie, Michael, and Nana Banana drove up to Taos to visit the Taos Pueblo. This pueblo is over eleven hundred years old and there are still families who occupy some of the residences year round. We were able to take a tour and it was incredible. 

Another Santa Fe hotspot that we visited was the Georgia O'Keefe Museum. Normally you wouldn't think an art museum would appeal to the super young in particular, but everyone seemed to love Georgia. The Museum has a great audio tour you can get through your phone and we all learned a great deal about her incredible life and the artwork she produced. Two thumbs up for this museum from the whole crew!

When we weren't looking at art produced by others we were being entertained by the young members of our group. Honestly we don't remember what they were doing here, but this picture captures our favorite place at our Airbnb. The patio was big, covered, and had a great view of the surrounding hills. We started and ended every day with time on the patio. We think Sport and Nana Banana were especially grateful for this space.

Our last night in Santa Fe we went down to the Railyard area, had dinner, and enjoyed a concert by Ozomatli. Sarah and John remember seeing Ozomatli back when they lived in southern California, and it was great to hear them live again. This is now the second time the extended Bowes family has done a trip like this and we may finally be getting the hang of it. Wonder where we will go next?